As a commuter student, you’re at school only part of the time, so it’s more difficult to meet people and make friends. But there ARE ways to invest yourself so that you don’t feel you’re just another face in the crowd. And “Getting Connected” can keep you from feeling isolated and alone — a common reason students turn to alcohol and other drugs.

Join at least one activity. If you’re stuck for an idea, try one that is related to your major. Get familiar with your school’s website to find out about clubs, teams, or organizations you might like to join. This is one of the best ways to become a true part of the campus community and make your college experience mean more to you than just academics.

Consider running for student government office or becoming involved in the Commuter Students Association (If there isn’t a CSA at your school, consider starting one. See “How to Start a CSA.”) If you have the time, this is a great way for lots of students on campus to get to know you without your having always to make the first move to introduce yourself. Being involved in student government means you’ll help plan a variety of events, which will force you to be on campus more than usual and get to know more people better.

Attend campus events. Remember that most events are for all students on campus! Once you start getting familiar with people and vice versa, you’ll start to think of yourself as a full-fledged student, not as a part-timer. Check the web site for all the college’s upcoming events and be sure to mark what you want to attend on your calendar.

Get a job on campus. Go to your school’s employment office or look at your school’s website for listings of on-campus jobs. While you’re there, ask if you qualify for work-study opportunities. If you’re an employee at the bookstore, information desk, or health clinic, you’re bound to meet other students.

Go to the restaurants, cafés, or music venues where resident students hang out around town. It’s only a matter of time before you start to recognize people (and vice versa) and feel more comfortable striking up a conversation. Have fun!